I posted the TIME magazine link naming President Barack Obama as 2012 Person of the Year on Facebook this morning. And guess what happened? Someone on my friend’s list who had not said or typed so much as a word to me in 10 years on or off Facebook decided she would comment on it. I was surprised because I had posted on her wall four years ago after she joined Facebook and gotten no response. That’s typical sometimes especially when people are new to certain apps or may not be tech savvy. So I didn’t think about it after that. I send her family a Christmas card every year because we used to be neighbors when we lived in Connecticut and they even invited us to Christmas dinner twice and it was nice.
I had a suspicion that she was a republican and for the longest time I was somewhat politically sensitive to some acquaintances regarding politics. Months ago I decided that I was no longer comfortable with that. After all, I do have a right to my views. One other point is I never really cared for Facebook and I initially had the account to play a game. I quit playing the game long ago and I kept the Facebook account and I use it from time to time.
So I figured, if it’s my Facebook account shouldn’t I post whatever I want just like everyone else does? Damn straight! And this morning I did just that, again. I guess JH (is what I will call her) decided after years of keeping mum she could hold back no longer and typed a three-word comment under the link I posted, “In whose opinion?” I stared at the comment and wondered how I was going to respond since I still had some respect for her. I hadn’t seen her in about 10 years and the last time I saw her we had a pleasant goodbye and that memory was frozen in time. That’s how I was prepared to remember her whenever she crossed my mind. Truthfully, I was busy taking that old memory out of the box and dusting it off because I was about to remold everything I thought I knew.
I answered her question about TIME’s choice and she, I, and another friend had some back and forth. I tried desperately not to get into a heated argument, but I could tell by her comments that what she was saying had nothing to do with policy and everything to do with the man holding the highest office.
What was it about this particular morning that compelled her to reveal herself as not a fan of Obama? Only speculation about that will follow. Periodically I go through my friend’s list and delete and block people who I don’t really know. I had come close to removing JH from the list several times thinking her account is just there to be there and I moved on past her picture without clicking the x never expecting to have any contact with her at all. Maybe she felt this was the morning to have an excuse to get rid of some people from her list? I’ll probably never know. What I do know is I’m not going to be intimidated by people who I thought I knew when I think they have misguided views. If you are referring to the President as The Almighty, claiming that I worship him, and demonizing poor people for getting government assistance you are not someone I want to communicate with and you are way off base.
I used to care if people liked me. I wanted to be nice to everyone. On some levels I still have those feelings, but it’s not at the expense of me denying what I believe to get along with someone who I don’t agree with. JH removed me as a friend and I’m glad she did because now when I scan my list there will be one less person there for me to ponder removing. Have a nice life JH!
P.S. The irony of this little event is JH’s husband works for General Motors and if my memory serves me I believe they were the recipients of a bailout courtesy of President Barack Obama.
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