August 2011

Women’s Equality Day

by Cheryl on August 26, 2011

in Equality, Politics

President Obama declared August 26th, the 91st anniversary of the Constitutional amendment that granted women the right to vote, Women’s Equality Day.

Women represent one in four state legislators, 17 members of the Senate, three justices on the Supreme Court, and seven Cabinet-level positions in the Obama administration.

One of my favorite quotes in honor of this day.

“The first resistance to social change is to say it’s not necessary.” ~Gloria Steinem

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All I Need to Know

by Cheryl on August 26, 2011

in Poems and Quotes

 

All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten

by Robert Fulghum

Most of what I really need
To know about how to live
And what to do and how to be
I learned in kindergarten.
Wisdom was not at the top
Of the graduate school mountain,
But there in the sandpile at Sunday school.

These are the things I learned:

Share everything.
Play fair.
Don’t hit people.
Put things back where you found them.
Clean up your own mess.
Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.
Wash your hands before you eat.
Flush.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
Live a balanced life -
Learn some and think some
And draw and paint and sing and dance
And play and work everyday some.
Take a nap every afternoon.
When you go out into the world,
Watch out for traffic,
Hold hands and stick together.
Be aware of wonder.

I saw this poem for the first time about twenty years ago while I waited in my child’s pediatricians’ office. I thought it was a very simplistic way to get you thinking and open up your mind. As a new parent I was already thinking about the unknowns of having a child to care for and how to handle all the things that were coming my way.

Well, it’s been almost twenty-one years and three children later I think it’s safe to say, up to this point that I’ve come through better than I could have imagined. Of course, I had no way of comprehending the magnitude of the things that would lie ahead for me, but I know if I could have, I wouldn’t have thought it would be so positive. I still have a long way to go and I have not come to the point in the road where I can say – I’m half way there. That may never happen (said with a smile).

The poem’s message for me was the foundation of basic values. Kind of like guidelines used to grow. Things I learned just half a life ago definitely have to be refined. So, I step out from the shadows of my absolute righteousness and I accept that some of the things I thought I knew are no longer valid in this progressive world. This is a good thing if you’re moving forward. Happy Friday!

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Jon Huntsman, a GOP candidate for president, tweeted that he believes in evolution and trusts scientists on global warming. Huntsman ended the tweet with “call me crazy”. What’s crazy about that? I’ll tell you what, that he has to make a statement like that, because no other candidate in his party is willing to acknowledge facts. This is 2011. I can find no other word to describe this except, sad.

During a debate all the GOP candidates raised their hands and said they did not believe in evolution. Science matters people.

The candidate from Texas compared the GOP’s fight to keep taxes low to the civil rights movement. Moron talking.

At one of his rallies, the flip-flop millionaire candidate said that corporations are people. He is also about to demolish one of his four homes and rebuild an 11,000+ square foot mansion in place of it. He has every right to do that, but my goodness the timing.

One of them, which I know of, doesn’t know basic history and claims she will bring gas prices down to $2.00 a gallon if she is elected president. She clearly doesn’t have a clue about OPEC and neither do I, but I know the president cannot control the price of oil.

And the same one having a problem with history wished Elvis happy birthday on the day of his death. Good thing he was not here to witness that.

Oh, and although she is not a candidate, let’s not forget about the one that goes around and steals the spotlight from all the other candidates and won’t say whether she will run or not. I used to think she was the dumbest of all, but now I don’t know if that’s the case. Um, yes, she still is.

These are the frontrunners according to our media. Tell me what this country has come to when people actually consider voting for people like this? This can’t be the best of the bunch.

If these people were in any profession other than politics their lack of knowledge would be unacceptable. But for some reason republicans and some independents in this country have come to accept little or nothing from politicians. I think that is irresponsible. How can you seriously vote for a person to represent you and they don’t know anything about the job they are supposed to do and are insensitive to what people are going through.

It’s disheartening that we expect so little knowledge from our leaders today. But if they happen to cheat on their spouse that is an absolute atrocity and we will not tolerate it. I am not condoning cheating I’m just saying. Don’t have any knowledge about government and world issues, excellent. Did you cheat, you’re finished!

I agree with some of the outrage over adultery, which is why I believe the same standard should be applied for lack of knowledge and compassion. It is unacceptable for a candidate to be elected to office and then six months later the constituents decide that he was a terrible choice and his approval rating is less than 30% (Florida governor). I have to ask, what were you doing while that person was campaigning? This casual attitude hurts our country.

I’m hoping that whichever GOP candidate emerges will ultimately be the loser in 2012. We can’t let this be what represents us. The world is watching and I shudder to think what they must be thinking about our country and our political system. More importantly, we should care about those things.

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Brain Drain

by Cheryl on August 22, 2011

in Aha Moments

I don’t feel like it. What does that really mean? For me it means several things. It means this is difficult. It means I’m tired of dealing with issues. But mostly it means I just don’t want to do this at all.

Some days are consumed with monotonous lists of things to handle and other days belong to everyone except me. Let me explain. I’m a planner and I don’t like surprises. I think about all the things I want to accomplish and I decide what I’m going to do and when I’m going to do it, because I don’t like being bombarded with questions and tasks. I’m almost never lucky enough to get through the day and just handle the things on my personal lists. If I’m fortunate, after I resolve someone else’s little complication, I get to throw one of mine in the mix as well. I say that with the biggest smile.

I came across an article in the New York Times, and although it didn’t discuss exactly what I was feeling, it is very similar in nature. Maybe my complaints shouldn’t be about the issues that I have to deal with, but rather the time of day that I am confronted with those issues. Apparently, there is something called decision fatigue. Here is part of a paragraph within the article by John Tierney.

No matter how rational and high-minded you try to be, you can’t make decision after decision without paying a biological price. It’s different from ordinary physical fatigue — you’re not consciously aware of being tired — but you’re low on mental energy. The more choices you make throughout the day, the harder each one becomes for your brain, and eventually it looks for shortcuts, usually in either of two very different ways. One shortcut is to become reckless: to act impulsively instead of expending the energy to first think through the consequences. (Sure, tweet that photo! What could go wrong?) The other shortcut is the ultimate energy saver: do nothing. Instead of agonizing over decisions, avoid any choice. Ducking a decision often creates bigger problems in the long run, but for the moment, it eases the mental strain.

I take certain positions given the issues presented and according to my mood. I doubt that is very different from most other people. It’s not always a conscious decision. If I had the luxury of putting off all decisions until a certain time of day, I wonder how many of those decisions I would actually want to make different choices for. The answer could be probably all of them or maybe none of them. The more time I have to second-guess myself the worst my judgment gets. In hindsight, most of my decisions worked for the best. So, for now I’m going to stick to my current way of managing things while keeping the time of day front and center in my mind.

You can read the entire article here: New York Times

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News, News, No News

by Cheryl on August 17, 2011

in Politics

I was pretty busy yesterday, but I did get a chance to listen to some of the political shows and I gained no information at all. Most of them were questioning why President Obama was on a bus tour and why he hasn’t written a grand document about what he stands for. The most useless discussion I heard was concerning Rick Perry and some comments he made about the president not being patriotic and whether his statement about Ben Bernanke was inappropriate. Yes, both were inappropriate. It takes about two seconds to come to that conclusion. So, why do I need to sit and listen to three or four people talk over each other and argue because one of them won’t admit it was wrong?

That time could have been spent discussing Rick Perry’s record as governor of Texas. But most of main stream media along with cable news are too busy having a love affair with Perry to even care. Texas leads the nation in workers earning poverty-wages and worst worker safety record. In 2010, the Texas graduation rate ranked 43rd out of 50 states. Texas leads the nation with the most uninsured citizens. Perry used the stimulus money for the state’s budget shortfall. And he suggested that Texas might secede from the union.

We need to know the truth about people and what they stand for. We need to be given the facts behind all the claims made by everyone not just campaigning politicians. What is it going to take for us to get that? In this environment, it can be difficult, but I use many sources to help me stay informed. I like facts, plain and simple. And I intend to get as many as I can.

For your viewing pleasure.

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It Happens

by Cheryl on August 15, 2011

in Aha Moments

In my lifetime, people I know and people very close to me have done a lot of nice things for me. You know who you are. Recently someone did something unexpectedly spectacular for me. The incredible part is I wouldn’t know the someone if they were standing right in front of me. There is no expectation of me to return a favor, but that says to me, just do my best. The good deed with no strings attached doesn’t come around often.

This is what I know. She wasn’t obligated to help me, as I had never personally asked for assistance. We had a brief conversation many months ago. And the remarkable thing is she remembered the details. A person that I can only say I know from social networking listened and at the right moment in time she provided information that was beneficial to several others and me. I’m grateful for many reasons. One of which is, if not for her I cannot imagine this particular thing happening under any other circumstance. But it did and I’m super grateful.

I’ve told her “thank you” countless times and she has been very gracious in saying some very thoughtful words in return. I just don’t feel like it’s enough, but possibly all that she wanted in return was that heart-felt acknowledgment of gratitude that makes you smile from the depths of your heart. Like I’m doing right now.

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This Is What You Ordered

August 12, 2011

Have you ever been mad at someone and said something like, “I’m going to teach him/her a lesson they will never forget”, and after it’s all over the only person that needed to learn something was you? Should I be mad at Congress? Should I be mad at the President? Maybe so, but I think [...]

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Step Aside

August 10, 2011

It just didn’t go like I planned. In general, that statement could refer to countless undertakings. This time a car lease negotiation inspired my thoughts, but they are certainly not limited to this one event. I used to spend many hours going over and over conversations or experiences and in the process mentally and physically [...]

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